alexandrapdx11 Dating Profile
Looking for some random fun...
Well, where do I begin? I was in an open marriage of eight years and had a lover/dom of five years at the same time. Through my lover, I learned the world and the art of BDSM and I took to it quite well. A few years ago, I decided to follow my own path and I have had my heart broken along the way. But who hasn't? I learned from it. I was in a relationship of two years where my BDSM desires were stifled and now that I have broken free of the 'vanilla' mold, I am now free to truly be who I was really meant to be. Especially now thanks to my lover, who allows me to be the woman I am now. But for those wondering what a switch is, please read the description below.For those new to the lifestyle of BDSM, a switch is someone who participates in BDSM activities sometimes as a top and other times as a bottom or (in the case of dominance and submission) sometimes as a dominant and other times as a submissive. Switches are very common. Partners may switch roles based on mood, desire, or to allow each partner to experience their preferred activity. For example, a switch may be in a relationship with someone of the same primary BDSM orientation (e.g., two dominants). So switching provides each partner with an opportunity to realize his or her BDSM needs.I am looking to play with people in between the ages of 25-45. No older and no younger!